Greek
School
One
day when I was still teaching at Baden Public school, in St. Louis,
one of the teachers and I were discussing an after school math program,
when my mind drifted back fifty years to the days when as a child I
also attended an after school program. It was Greek school, but it was
a private program, not sponsored by Federal funds.
As
a child living on Aubert Avenue, my family was one of fourteen Greek
families situated in a two block area. The parents were all from Greece
and Asia Minor; fifteen to twenty years in this country.
The
Greek fathers spoke some English, mostly broken, but only one father,
mine, had had a college education in the old country. One of the languages
he had learned was English; he had a good vocabulary in the language,
and could communicate quite well.
The
Greek mothers, with no exception, knew very little, or almost no English.
They conversed totally in Greek.
These
Greek immigrants wanted one very important thing for their children,
they all wanted their children to learn to read and write Greek. Speaking
Greek for the children was no problem, that was the principal language
in the home. The children spoke English outside the home, while playing
with friends, or at school, but at home, Greek was the only spoken communication
among the members of the family.
To
teach the children to read and write Greek was of prime importance.
Some parents who had a little education could teach their children,
but they did not have the time, the materials, and in many cases, the
patience.
Fortunately,
in the community there was a qualified individual of Greek nationality,
who was also a fairly recent immigrant to St. Louis from her native
Constantinople. Her name was Efthemia Andreadou. Kyria Efthemia was
born to be a teacher, strict in every sense of the word. She had also
had formal training as a teacher in her native city.
Kyria
Efthemia had impeccable credentials. She had a good reputation. In the
early twenties she came to St. Louis, and a marriage was arranged with
a compatriot. He was a truck driver for a Greek owned bakery. He wore
glasses and was a happy man, smiling all the time, in contrast to her
austere, glaring countenance. She wore glasses, which gave greater emphasis
to the stern look constantly present on her face. They were childless.
Not
only in the discipline of her classroom, where Kyria Efthemia demanded
and got the undivided attention of her pupils; she was also able to
motivate her charges, and they responded to her with lessons well prepared
and well learned; that, in spite of the fact none of the students were
thrilled at the prospect of giving up three afternoons a week after
the regular public school had been dismissed to go to her class. All
of her pupils walked to Greek school, some as much as a mile, in heat
and cold, (no one rode in an automobile, because no parent owned a car);
to ride the street car to attend the Greek school class was out of the
question. The fare for a child under twelve was a nickel one way, ten
cents for those above the age of twelve; round trip fare of ten cents
or twenty cents to spend for one child was too much money in the financially
troubled times of the Depression. Occasionally, if it rained, my parents
did give money to my sister and to me to go to Greek school by street
car, but as a rule, we walked, as did everyone else.
In
the years of the early Thirties, it was called just plain, unadorned
Greek school; now it is referred to as Greek Cultural school, not quite
as harsh a term, presenting a softer image. Plain Greek school might
give the impression of a sore thumb sticking out, but Greek Cultural
school has the feel of blending in more with the American way of life.
The
students that attended Kyria Efthemia's classes came from several areas
near Taylor and Finney avenues, where her school was located in a rented
store. About ten children from our street, Aubert avenue, made up our
group.
Our
small group formed as we met outside of the Washington Elementary school
building on Euclid avenue when school was dismissed for the day. The
school had been built in 1893, of red brick. It was a severe, plain-looking
building, with no fancy exterior adornments such as towers or spires
that some of the other public school edifices had. The building itself
gave the impression that no nonsense would be tolerated there. There
were three floors, about ten classrooms; a nurse and a doctor came weekly
to the school.
Our
group was made up of older sisters and brothers from the upper grades,
who waited impatiently for younger sisters and brothers from the lower
grades to meet in front of the school building. We did not go home first,
instead we started off on our walk to Greek school.
Our
itinerary began from Washington school, south on Euclid Avenue to the
corner, turn left, going east at Fountain avenue, bordering Fountain
Park. The park was oval in shape and stretched for three blocks. In
the center of the park was an ornate, sculptured fountain, reminiscent
of fountains found in Rome; water cascading down the sides and splashing
into the basin. I recall many times, as youngsters, my siblings and
I, on a hot humid St. Louis summer day, leaning over the side of the
fountain, and letting the water splash on us, cooling us. We would giggle
and scream with delight as we cooled off.
Fountain
Avenue had large beautiful two and three story brick homes facing the
park, with well trimmed yards. We continued east two blocks, past Bayard
Avenue and Walton Avenue to Lewis Place, which was a private street.
The
entrance to Lewis Place had an inspiring Arch, built by the original
developer of the area. It was quite impressive, and an inspiration to
the young students in search of their mother language. Lewis Place was
lit by gas lights, and was two blocks long; it had a center parkway
lined on both sides with dignified homes that had been built between
1890 and 1928. Lewis Place is now a part of the National Register Historic
District.
I
was always very impressed as we walked through Lewis Place, because
there was a Greek family living there, the Nanos family. Phillip, the
son, also attended our Greek school. The father had made his money in
the theater business, owning several. It was a well-known fact that
he had sent a lot of money to the old country to his village in Epirus,
Greece, to build a school, and gave money for other causes. One day,
on our way to Greek school, I saw an African American woman in a maid's
uniform sweeping their front porch. It was an impressive scene that
I have never forgotten.
Another
majestic arch designated the end of Lewis Place, coming out at Taylor
avenue. Our group then turned left going north, immediately facing a
row of four stores next to our final destination.
There
were no snacks awaiting us at Greek school, nor did anyone have any
spending money to stop on our way at a confectionary or a grocery store
to buy anything. Fortunately, there was a candy store next to the store
Kyria Efthemia had rented for our classes.
On
the rare occasion one of us would have a penny to spend, we would stop
in at the candy store. For a penny one could buy several pieces of licorice,
hard candy, etc. If one wasn't able to eat all the candy before class
started, they would try and sneak and put some in their mouth when they
thought Kyria Efthimia wasn't looking. That was not the wisest thing
to do; invariably they were caught and chastised for their behavior.
Greek
school was Kyria Efthemia's own undertaking. The parents paid her directly
for her services. The store she had rented for our classes was plain.
There was no covering on the store windows, and I imagine a passerby
could look in and see the classes in session. On the walls she had hung
pictures of the heroes of the Greek War of Independence; Kolocotronis,
Athanasios Diakos, Karaiskakis, Papaflessas, dark-haired, grim looking,
mustachioed faces staring down at us as we tried to learn the language
of our parents.
There
was a portable blackboard, a teacher's desk, and five rows of student's
desks, about five in each row to accommodate the twenty-one or twenty-two
students. Kyria Efthemia taught all six grades, all levels, her students
ranging in age from seven to fourteen years.
In
her classroom was an ever present stick, placed within close range,
to use freely at her discretion, rightly or wrongly. She was a stern
taskmaster, who thought nothing of hitting the children, girls or boys,
with her stick. Even I was not excluded from that policy. It was true
that some of the older boys, the Thavorides boys, Jimmy, George and
Tony, Philip Nanos, and others, were restless and playful; but never
to the point where it was necessary to be struck with the stick. In
general, the students were well behaved and quiet during class time.
Almost at every class one of the older boys would manage to break her
stick or leave with it, when she was not aware of it. At the next class,
undaunted by the event of the previous class, she would bring a new
stick to the classroom.
Kyria
Efthemia did not provide hooks for us for our coats, so when the weather
turned cold , we had to keep our wraps at our desks. Sometimes that
could be a problem, because the more articles of clothing we had, the
more cumbersome and restricted our seats were.
On
one occasion, when I should have been studying my Greek lesson, and
I thought Kyria Efthemia was preoccupied with one of the older groups,
I got up out of my seat to straighten my coat which had gotten rumpled
up and arrange it better on my seat. Out of nowhere, I heard the whoosh
of an object, and felt a long, thin object across my back, accompanied
by a sharp pain. Kyria Efthemia had come around in back of me while
I was standing up and arranging my things, and whacked me across my
back!
It
stunned me, and hurt quite a bit.
When
I went home, and for a week afterward, I complained my back hurt. My
mother would rub it with ointment. The only problem was, my point of
emphasis shifted, and I would point to different parts of my back and
say the pain was coming from there. My mother was mystified by the shifting
of the pain. My parents never complained, or said a word to Kyria Efthemia
about her hitting me on the back with the stick. Instead, my mother
admonished me, and told me that next time I should be more careful when
I arranged my wraps. I should not disturb the teacher.
As
it was, I was one of the youngest in the class. My parents felt it expedient
to send me to Greek school because my sister Olympia, who was three
years my senior, was enrolled in the fourth grade class. Olympia was
quiet, obedient and a model student. Kyria Efthemia never had an occasion
to correct her, verbally of otherwise, in any way.
There
was only one other child close to my age at Greek school, our next door
neighbor, Alex John. She was almost a year older than I was. Our family
and hers were koumbari, my mother had baptized her brother Pete. Alex
and I were very good friends, both socially oriented, very talkative.
We sat one in back of the other and were constantly reprimanded for
our talking to each other. One of my fondest memories of going to and
coming home from Greek school was the camaraderie of the group. I felt,
even though I was one of the youngest, that I was accepted by the older
children, particularly the girls. I was equal to them, friends such
as Bessie Laskaris, Lillian Marsellos, were the leaders of the group,
the trend setters among the girls. They knew many of the latest popular
songs, and would sing them with fervor and happiness. Songs such as
Winter Wonderland, Walking My Baby Back Home, were favorites of theirs.
We all learned the songs from them.
The
boys in the group were also friendly, but full of mischief, Pete John,
Nicky Marsellos, Nick Laskaris. Their biggest joy was to tease the girls,
to chase them, to try and take their belongings from them and toss them
back and forth to each other. The boys were particularly annoying to
the girls in winter, when it got dark early. Their biggest scheme was
to frighten the girls, to run ahead and hide behind a car or bush, throw
pebbles or rocks as the girls approached, or jump out of their hiding
places and scare the girls. The girls would yell, or run away, or fuss
at the boys, but secretly I think they enjoyed it. No parent ever confronted
another parent about the boy's behavior. The parents felt that it was
natural for children to act in those ways. The parents were happy to
have the children go to and come home from Greek school in a group,
they felt their children were safer that way. I sometimes think of the
little group from Washington school, the days of trudging and plodding
to and from Greek school. There was a spirit of friendly goodwill among
the children, a gregariousness, good fellowship, sociability, cheer.
For me, I felt I was accepted by my peers, even though they were older.
I looked up to them as role models, and I was a part of them. I don't
recall anyone of the group being mean, or critical, or speaking harshly
to me. They liked me, and accepted me as I was. Being in their company,
I felt a part of them, it helped me develop self-confidence, self-esteem.
I never expressed any thoughts that were negative about Greek school,
in spite of Kyria Efthemia's difficult ways, I went willingly. I was
happy to go.
The
closeness our little group developed during those years stayed with
all of us through the rest of our years of education, and even after
everyone was married. We had established an unspoken bond, a friendship
that continues to this day.
©
2003 by Jennie Constantinides
Vlanton
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